11 Steps To More Confidence With
Here are 11
quick-fire tips for developing more confidence with
Whether you’re already happy approaching, meeting, and talking
to women, or if the idea of being in the same room as a gorgeous
goddess fills you with fear, these 11 techniques will help you
increase your confidence with women.
1) Assume She's Interested
A big mistake guys make that really knocks their confidence, is
they assume a beautiful woman wouldn’t be interested in them. So
they talk themselves out of it before they even get started.
Instead, assume every woman is interested in you until proven
2) Be Willing To Walk Away
In negotiation, the person most willing to walk away has the
most power. It’s the same when meeting women. You’ve got to realize
there are millions upon millions of women walking around on this
planet. If one doesn’t work out, who cares?! Move on…
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3) See Yourself As 'Higher Status'
If you perform a little mental check and see yourself as
the highest status person in a room, then there’s no way you can be
intimidated by a beautiful woman. So now you’re checking to see if
she’s in your league - not the other way round. This is a very
powerful way to boost your confidence with women.
4) Develop "Internal Validation"
Practice being unaffected by external circumstances. This means
developing a bulletproof happiness and enjoyment of life no matter
what’s happening around you. Sure, it takes time to ‘get’, but it’s
very very worthwhile (and women find it magnetic).
5) Control Your Breathing
Shifting the way you breathe to slow and deep breaths from your
lower abdomen. It has a very calming effect. And the extra oxygen
hitting your brain will help you think more clearly too, giving you
more confidence with women.
6) Move Less & Be Less Animated Than
When you move around less than the woman you’re talking to, you
subtly communicate a powerful leadership vibe. Try it.
7) Make Your Movements Smooth and
Don’t fidget. Don’t be jerky or unnatural in your movements.
Instead show real intention and purpose behind your gestures and
movements. It conveys a lot of confidence with women.
8) Hold Eye Contact
If you catch an attractive woman looking at you, maintain eye
contact until she looks away. And if you’re talking to an
attractive woman, hold eye contact just a little longer than
9) Smile Knowingly
Smiling conveys confidence with women. Frowning doesn't. Smile
knowingly when you catch a girl looking at you. In fact, just
practice smiling more often and notice how people respond to you
when you do. I’m not talking about a scary, ‘all teeth showing’
grin - just a smooth smile that communicates confidence.
10) Insert "Pauses"
Practice…inserting…plenty…of…PAUSES and spaces between the words
you’re saying. Not only does it show confidence, but it also helps
build anticipation in the woman you’re talking to as well. And
women love anticipation.
11) Alpha Male Body Language
So what do I mean by ‘alpha body language’? Head straight,
shoulders back, no leaning or hunching. Imagine you’re the most
powerful man on the planet. How would you carry yourself if that
were true? How might you walk? Stand? Sit?
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If you do anything with enough authority you can get away with
it. Sure, you may have to “fake it until you make it” with some of
these techniques, but practice enough and they WILL become a
natural and effortless part of your behavior. It's a surefire way
to build greater confidence with women.