5 First Date Tips

The first date tips you’re about to read are NOT the typical “just be nice, take her to dinner, be polite” advice you hear most of the time.

Because while that may be great for making a new friend, dating is about is about something very different. It’s about sparking attraction in the woman you are with. And to be successful, you need a slightly different approach.

Here are 5 first date tips to make sure you make a powerful first impression with a woman:

1) DON’T GO FOR DINNER

Let’s get one thing straight. When you date a woman, you want to create a fantastic experience for both of you. So when she thinks of you, she’ll feel a rush of all the great emotions she experienced on the date.

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And you’ll find it much easier to achieve this effect if the date you decide on has ‘interest’ and ‘adventure’ already built into it. Very often, going out for a ‘dinner for two’ just won’t cut it. You’ll have formal waiters and waitresses piling on the pressure by treating you as a couple, and there’ll be a bunch of awkward silences if the restaurant isn’t busy. Plus, if you like each other, you’ll both have to endure a whole sit down meal while the pair of you are wishing you were somewhere else.

Not much fun.

Instead, follow these first date tips and do something else instead. Consider taking her to a party with your friends, doing something active, or just heading to a busy coffee house.

2) DON’T TRY TO “BUY” HER AFFECTION

If you show up with flowers, chocolates and gifts, it can make it look like you’re trying to “buy” her time and attention. It communicates a very subtle message that you have low self-esteem and don’t think you’re worthy of her affection if you show up empty handed.

Forget all that.

You ARE worthy and you have nothing to prove. So just bring the best version of yourself. That’s all you need.

3) DON’T TRY TO “IMPRESS” HER

Again, stop putting pressure on yourself to “impress” her. There’s this law in psychology called “The Law of Reversed Effect”. And it basically says that the more pressure you put on yourself, the more likely you are to fail.

Honestly, just relax, be casual and have fun.

4) DON’T “PLAY IT SAFE”

This ties in with number “3”. You see, most guys are forever seeking a woman’s approval. If he says something the woman doesn’t like, he quickly rejects what he says, and replaces it with something she'll find more pleasing.

Well, I’m telling you: Do NOT do this.

If you try to “play it safe” you come across as weak and spineless. And that’s massively unattractive to women. Instead, women appreciate confidence and leadership. So behave in a way that displays these qualities instead.

5) END THE DATE 'EARLY'

This final one of the first date tips needs a little explaining. Especially if the date is going really well. You see, you want to end the date on a high note, before she’s had enough, and at a point that feels a little ‘too soon’.

Why?

Because when you do this, her final memory of you will be charged with energy and excitement, and she’ll eagerly be anticipating your next date. She’ll be thinking about you loads, and this is exactly what you want to happen.

So that wraps this piece on ‘5 First Date Tips’. Try them out for yourself.

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