Flirting With Women
Note: This is
page 2 of this guide on Flirting with Women. For page 1 go to:
How to Flirt with a Girl
In part one we uncovered the three main attitudes you want to
keep in mind when you’re flirting with women.
And to recap, these are:
1. Create Tension
2. Playful Curiosity
3. Be Overly Confident
So now we’re going to look at the specific action steps you can
take to effortlessly combine these important attitudes and use them
when flirting with women.
The key point you want to keep in mind is to HAVE FUN with it!
Treat it all like a game and experiment. And just treat each of her
responses as useful feedback in helping you flirt more effectively
with her. There are no bad results, just useful feedback.
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With that said, let’s jump into flirting technique number
1) TEASE + MAKE FUN OF HER
I know it sounds strange to make fun of a woman you’re
interested in. I used to think the same thing myself. But when
flirting with women, teasing her and making fun of her are some of
the best things you can do.
Because it powerfully combines ALL of the flirting attitudes
we’ve mentioned. It unleashes your playful side, definitely creates
tension in the woman, and clearly shows you have the confidence and
aren’t afraid to mess with her. It’s all good.
2) NEVER ANSWER HER DIRECTLY
Again, you might think this sounds weird. But an important part
of being playful is responding in ways that are unpredictable and
far from what she is expecting. So, instead of giving a
straightforward answer to what you do for work, or what you study,
try giving an answer that’s the total opposite of what she probably
wants to hear. And do it playfully.
Then watch how the tension builds inside of her…
3) PUSH HER AWAY (playfully)
As she starts to lean in to you, one of the very best ways you
can flirt with her is to push her away as you tease her. This will
clearly show you’re un-needy and confident (because most guys cling
to any attention a woman gives them).
So by doing this you make yourself stand out, and help to build
the tension between the two of you. And remember, do all of this in
a playful way that encourages her to come back for more.
4) GIVE HER DIRECTIONS
It’s true that most women desire to be led by a man. They
appreciate leadership qualities in a man, and they like a man who
is decisive and knows what he wants.
So if you can use this knowledge when flirting with women, it
can work out really well for you. Perhaps tell her to get the first
round of drinks while you grab some seats. Or have her meet you at
a moment’s notice, because you’re way more interesting than
anything else going on in her life.
Remember, keep it playful, be unpredictable, and do it with
confidence. And you’ll marvel at the tension this creates as you
5) PLAY GAMES AND WIN
Finally - and this is so, so powerful - encourage her to play
games with you. And make sure you always win. Do things like ‘thumb
wrestle her’ or ‘arm wrestle her’, then after you win, tease her
about losing, and suggest she’s probably not a very good kisser if
she can’t even beat you at thumb-wrestling.
When you “challenge” a woman like this, and really push up the
tension levels, she will then feel she has to prove you wrong. And
how can she prove to you that she IS a good kisser? Yep, get ready
for some lip-to-lip action.
Try these techniques out for yourself. They work great when
flirting with women.
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