Flirting With Women

Note: This is page 2 of this guide on Flirting with Women. For page 1 go to: How to Flirt with a Girl 

In part one we uncovered the three main attitudes you want to keep in mind when you’re flirting with women.

And to recap, these are:

1. Create Tension
2. Playful Curiosity
3. Be Overly Confident

So now we’re going to look at the specific action steps you can take to effortlessly combine these important attitudes and use them when flirting with women.

The key point you want to keep in mind is to HAVE FUN with it! Treat it all like a game and experiment. And just treat each of her responses as useful feedback in helping you flirt more effectively with her. There are no bad results, just useful feedback.

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With that said, let’s jump into flirting technique number one:

1) TEASE + MAKE FUN OF HER

I know it sounds strange to make fun of a woman you’re interested in. I used to think the same thing myself. But when flirting with women, teasing her and making fun of her are some of the best things you can do.

Why?

Because it powerfully combines ALL of the flirting attitudes we’ve mentioned. It unleashes your playful side, definitely creates tension in the woman, and clearly shows you have the confidence and aren’t afraid to mess with her. It’s all good.

2) NEVER ANSWER HER DIRECTLY

Again, you might think this sounds weird. But an important part of being playful is responding in ways that are unpredictable and far from what she is expecting. So, instead of giving a straightforward answer to what you do for work, or what you study, try giving an answer that’s the total opposite of what she probably wants to hear. And do it playfully.

Then watch how the tension builds inside of her…

3) PUSH HER AWAY (playfully)

As she starts to lean in to you, one of the very best ways you can flirt with her is to push her away as you tease her. This will clearly show you’re un-needy and confident (because most guys cling to any attention a woman gives them).

So by doing this you make yourself stand out, and help to build the tension between the two of you. And remember, do all of this in a playful way that encourages her to come back for more.

4) GIVE HER DIRECTIONS

It’s true that most women desire to be led by a man. They appreciate leadership qualities in a man, and they like a man who is decisive and knows what he wants.

So if you can use this knowledge when flirting with women, it can work out really well for you. Perhaps tell her to get the first round of drinks while you grab some seats. Or have her meet you at a moment’s notice, because you’re way more interesting than anything else going on in her life.

Remember, keep it playful, be unpredictable, and do it with confidence. And you’ll marvel at the tension this creates as you flirt.

5) PLAY GAMES AND WIN

Finally - and this is so, so powerful - encourage her to play games with you. And make sure you always win. Do things like ‘thumb wrestle her’ or ‘arm wrestle her’, then after you win, tease her about losing, and suggest she’s probably not a very good kisser if she can’t even beat you at thumb-wrestling.

When you “challenge” a woman like this, and really push up the tension levels, she will then feel she has to prove you wrong. And how can she prove to you that she IS a good kisser? Yep, get ready for some lip-to-lip action.

Try these techniques out for yourself. They work great when flirting with women.

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