How To Approach A Girl

If you’ve ever seen an attractive woman and hesitated, because you didn’t know how to approach a girl you like, then you’ll really to want to read this.

You see, a strange thing happens when most guys spot a woman they like.

Most of the time they freeze, and start listing off all the negative reasons why she’d never be interested in them. “Too old”, “too young”, “she probably has a boyfriend”, “she’s out of my league”, “I’m not her type”, “she’ll reject me”, “I don’t know what to say”…and the list goes on. (Pick your favorite).

Quite simply they talk themselves out of approaching her. They convince themselves it would never work out.

And so they never even try.

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Meanwhile, the girl is probably just hoping, praying and waiting for a guy to show up and sweep her off her feet.

Well, instead of explaining “why” most guys talk themselves out of approaching attractive women, let’s focus on something more productive and useful.

Here’s how to approach a girl you like in a way that gets her interested in you:

1) “I AM THE PRIZE” MENTALITY

This is an important attitude shift you can use whenever those negative thoughts creep in. Because the only way to get rid of a negative thought is to REPLACE it with something else. So, instead of telling yourself all the reasons not to approach a girl, say to yourself: “I am the prize”.

And all this means is that you EXPECT her to like you. After all, YOU are the prize (not her). And notice how your body language changes when you do this. You want to adopt the posture of a confident person, so she perceives you as confident when you approach.

Make sense? Good. Let’s continue…

2) TREAT EACH APPROACH AS AN EXPERIMENT

Here’s how to approach a girl without getting nervous. Simply look at each approach as an “experiment”. It’s a chance to try something out and see if it works. Be willing to make mistakes. It’s not a life-or-death situation. Nothing terrible is going to happen. You’re just two people who happen to be in the same location, and you’d like to have a chat. That’s all.

3) QUIT CARING ABOUT THE OUTCOME

This is tied to ‘Number 2’. When you learn how to approach a girl, and treat each approach as an experiment, it’s also very useful to ‘quit caring about the outcome’. This simply means letting go of any ideas you may have in your head about how things ‘should’ work out.

You have to be willing to leave any moment she screws it up. So stop putting so much importance on any one girl, and remember there are literally MILLIONS upon MILLIONS of other women in this world. Even if you spent every second of your life approaching women, you still wouldn’t have enough time to approach them all. So if this one doesn’t work out, who cares? There are PLENTY more women out there waiting to be approached.

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To find out more about how to approach a girl, see page 2 of this guide right here: How To Approach Women