How To Approach Women

Note: This is page 2 of this guide on how to approach women . For page 1 go to How to Approach a Girl.

So now that you know the important mindsets when learning how to approach women effectively, let’s have a look at how to handle the approach itself:

4) APPROACH AS SOON AS YOU SEE HER

Far too many guys will see a women they find attractive, and then spend far too long thinking up something to say. Or failing that, they talk themselves out of it completely. Meanwhile, if you wait too long and the woman has already noticed you looking at her, she might get a bit freaked out when you do finally approach.

A better approach is to see a girl you like and then to immediately walk on over. This  way, it’s a lot more spontaneous, you don’t get locked up in your own thinking, and it forces you “experiment” and think quickly on your feet.

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5) AIM TO “GIVE VALUE”

Rather than thinking about what you can ‘get’ out of an approach, instead focus on GIVING her a great experience. Focus on making her feel better than she felt before you arrived.

And how might you do this?

Well, think about introducing her to other people you know, being lighthearted and bringing a good positive vibe.

This is in complete contrast to the way most guys approach a woman. They usually ask so many questions that she feels like she’s being interrogated. Don’t do this. Instead, tell stories, offer information, and don’t act like you’re trying to ‘get somewhere’ with her. If you’re just there to have fun, she’ll pick up on that and appreciate you much more for it.

6) TEASE RIGHT FROM THE START

When you’re willing to tease a girl right from the first time you meet, it communicates so many positive qualities about you. Firstly, it shows you have confidence (and in case you didn’t know, women are VERY attracted to confidence).

Secondly, it shows you know how to have fun and don’t take life too seriously. Again, another attractive quality.

And thirdly, it shows you know how to approach women without acting weird or unnatural. So tease and make fun of her right from the start. Just keep it playful and encourage her to join in.

7) BE INDEPENDENT OF HER OPINION

This is perhaps the very best piece of advice you can get when learning how to approach women. And that is to become emotionally unaffected by her behavior. In other words, to stay happy no matter what is going on around you, no matter what she says or does.

Why?

Remember, the whole approach is just an “experiment”, so it really doesn’t matter what happens. Regardless of the reaction she gives you, you do not - under any circumstances - want to attach your happiness to whether she gives you approval.

Treat your happiness and her approval as entirely separate. So if things go great with the approach - fantastic - you feel good. But if it doesn’t work out - still fantastic - because it’s just an experiment, you’re not attached to the outcome, and your happiness is independent of the way she responds to you.

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All of these attitudes and techniques can make a positive and powerful impact when you’re learning how to approach women. Simple take one you like the look of, and put into action next time you see an attractive woman you’d like to meet.