How To Attract A Girl

Note: This is page 2 of this guide on how to attract a girl. For page 1 go to: How to Attract Girls.

In part one of “How to Attract A Girl”, we explained that attracting women is a skill you can actually learn and develop. We also looked at how being “un-needy” and “casual” are very effective methods for becoming more attractive to women.

Now it’s time to unravel the remaining key attitudes and beliefs for amplifying the attraction a girl feels for you. Let’s continue:

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3) BE A LEADER

All women secretly want to be led. So it really is up to you to take the lead when you’re talking and interacting with women. This can be as simple as you being the one to approach, make plans, and even deciding when it’s time to end the date.

Just know that most girls expect you to take the initiative. So knowing how to attract a girl is all about leading her in the direction she already wants to be led.

4) TEASE

Most guys find the concept of ‘teasing’ a bit confusing. When they’re focused on learning how to attract a girl, they don’t see how teasing her could possibly work.

Isn’t it just going to offend her and make her angry?

In a word, no. Teasing increases a woman’s emotional state. As a result, it stimulates feelings of attraction for you. As long as you make the whole experience playful and fun, you’ll be creating some fantastic tension between the two of you. You’ll also be demonstrating great confidence - which girls love - and it’s also an opportunity to mark your authority as a leader too.

5) BE CHALLENGING

Don’t just accept everything a beautiful woman says as ‘fact’. That's NOT how to attract a girl. Far too many guys fall for this trap. Instead, aim to be challenging and unpredictable around the girls you are interested in. Don’t flatter her with compliments. Don’t always call her back. And have an active and busy social life.

Keep her guessing about what’s going to happen next, and make her have to work for your attention. This is a great way to spark interest in the beginning, and a superb method for maintaining attraction as you get to know each other better.

6) JUST BE HAVING A GOOD TIME

Have you ever noticed that people tend to be attracted to where the fun and laughter is in a room?

So one of the best bits of advice you can follow when you’re out, is to just focus on enjoying yourself, letting go, and having a good time. Don’t worry too much about what’s going on around you. Just enjoy yourself. If you do, you’ll notice that girls will naturally gravitate to the fun people, without you really having to try. It’s a really attractive quality.

Sure, it’s pretty sneaky, but why not make use of a natural human response? Plus you get to have even more fun when you’re out.

7) DON’T "NOTICE" HER BEAUTY

Now, this one might seem a bit strange when you first hear it. But when you’re learning how to attract a girl, this works really, really well.

Quite simply, you practice “not noticing” how beautiful the girl is that you’re talking to. You practice seeing right past her looks and simply focusing on what she’s like as a person.
Most girls will find this pretty disarming, because they’re not used to it, and you can really turn it to your advantage.

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These techniques work very well by themselves, but they’re even better when you combine them together. Simply choose one to begin with and practice it the next time you want to attract a girl. Then add another technique, and another, until you’ve mastered them all.